>Why is this complicated? If you can’t remember the trauma, how can you suffer from it?
replyBecause trauma affixes neutal pathways. You don't have to remember it to be affected, at all.
If you find a bug in your code does it matter who is to blame? Is it useful to remember you had a fight with your wife the day you committed it?
replyDoes a car mechanic need a video of the crash to fix the car?