If you are referring to having to download react itself then you have to download the WebComponents code too.
Actually with smart use of forms and links you could make a js free react page (using forms to submit state changes) more easily than for WebComponents
I would say very few people are using bare web component. They'll be using a library like Lit at the very least, so your argument is moot.
Like 50kb. Roughly the same size as Amazon website's icon sheet.