It kind of reminds me of Dungeons and Dragons, in a sense. Pandas is so popular that people learn/use it because of its popularity, rather than because it's the best for any one use-case. Polars is cleaner, faster, and can easily be scaled up for production use-cases so your little POC script for local analysis can be productionized really easily, but there are holdouts still on Pandas because it was so complicated to learn with so many little extra rules to learn to avoid paper cuts that they feel like learning another data manipulation tool would be really hard.

DnD does the same thing: it's the most popular but its rules are this awkward hybrid of legacy cruft and some modern ideas, so learning it a huge effort, which means most people who play it aren't willing to try any other RPG systems even though most of them are dramatically easier to learn because they were built with a clean design from the ground-up.

It's the sunk-cost fallacy as applied to learning something complex, combined with something like the horn effect (inverse of the halo effect) making any competitors look equally complex even if they're not, causing long-time Pandas users/DnD players to strongly resist even looking at other options. Basically the frustration of learning these older systems seemingly traumatizes some people into never straying.