I don't know if that's true, for most programmers AI has either led a lost job, a more boring job, or maybe an easier job but without any gains in pay or reduction in hours.

Given the number of people who work at Facebook, yes, many of us are.

Obviously those that benefit from AI have no ethics and morals. You can see it daily here.

Only a minority of programmers are benefiting from LLMs, so I think the theory holds. Most programmers are either refusing to use it, or being forced to use it and miserable as a result.