>This is like saying that going to restaurants does not allow your talent to shine in cooking.

It really isn't, presumably you go to a restaurant to enjoy someone else's work, and the owner put some effort at the dishes.

I suspect you'll struggle to find an example of human activity where there is no effort or agency in both the consumer and the maker.

>You are judging people for not doing what you think they should do. As if your role was to be their social engineer.

Kind of a weird argument. Now you're judging me for the writings of my post, as if you were my editor (?). Of course debate implies voicing an opinion.