If you need layer 2 or stateless layer 3 filtering at hardware speeds, Mikrotik makes 10G switches that can do it for under $200. Mikrotik APs also support port and WiFi isolation which is enough security for most home networks (e.g. isolating an IOT VLAN).

Mikrotik's "fastpath" stateful connection tracking feature is also fast in my experience; not fully wire speed but good enough for untrusted devices that you want to be fast, like a Fire stick or game console or similar.

- Mikrotik doesn't have open ports to the outside since years and years ago, IIRC. They had a CVE on their administration port (not in ssh) in 2023, but you shouldn't open that port to the outside anyway.

- All Mikrotik wireless routers include at least a level 4 license. You only need a higher license level if you need more than 200 VPN tunnels or more than 200 users in the hotspot functionality. A bigger wireless router like the hAP ax³ will already have a level 6 license, the biggest one. You might need a license if you set up a Mikrotik instance in a X86 server, or virtualized, for example to manage a bigger site or as a bigger hotspot controller. Licenses aren't expensive and are paid only once, no subscriptions (by device, I think you get a device ID or something like that).

- All the Mikrotik routers that I own still get updates. The RB750GL, that was released like 15 years ago or more, still updated.

One issue I had was that I was affected (and many others) by wifi bug in firmware which made connections drop randomly. Took them half a year to resolve it. Wouldn't recommend Mikrotik as access point. Otherwise it's good.