Duckdb might not be the reason, the real reason might be AWS.
It's been two years since I worked on this, but AWS Nitro might be triggering a high CPU Steal % when all the cores are busy at the same time.
You can do taskset -c 1-191 <server-process> and get a tiny bit of breathing room there.
I almost always do this above 32 cores, since this lets me always have a nice responsive ssh connection when the rest of the CPUs are churning high.
The more cores you have, the less of a problem sparing 1 core becomes.