IP options are annoying in big fast routers because they have to take the slow route via CPU. As there's not a lot of use in accepting packets (externally at least) with IP options, they tend to be dropped totally (but will almost certainly be policed aggressively to the CPU as the CPU is not good for moving many packets).
There's so much commentary misunderstanding what ip-options are that I find it difficult to make any judgement call. I do know that I've got routers on 5 continents with hundreds of public IPs and none have triggered an IP packet with an ip-option arriving on the WAN side, or seen on the internal side other than ones I've created with scapy trying to reproduce this. I also can't get these packets to traverse any internet paths I've tried.