The other reality is, there are now good free alternatives to Conductor (I haven't tried them so we will see) - it does suck if you feel very tied to your existing workflow, but I also think about it from the level of 'these people gave me something for free that helped me a lot, and I want things to work out well for them'.
Users chose them knowing full well the risks.
Build a product with paid customers, then you can choose not to sell out.
And thanks for the projection. I have a product with paid customers and I refuse to sell out. The project sinks with me.