Then I must be a bad reviewer. In a past job, I had a colleague who meticulously crafted his commits - his PRs were a joy to review because I could go commit by commit in logical chunks, rather than wading through a single 3k line diff. I tried to do the same for him and hope I succeeded.
I feel like what you're arguing is that you should clean up your commits before anyone else sees them. Fair. But you could also clean it up right before merging to main. It's not that different, except the latter is much less annoying, particularly when going back and forth with people.
I know this is a very github centric workflow, but that's where most engineers work now, and it's nice and easy. This wouldn't work for eg: contributing to linux, but that's not what most of us do.
I think in most teams I've worked with, the majority of developers (> 85%) barely undestand what Git is doing or what things mean inside GitHub, have never seen commit history as a graph, have never run something like "git log --oneline --graph --decorate" or "--format", and have never heard of "git range-diff" which is very useful for following commit/PR/unit changes.
Personally I review using "git" itself, so I see the graph structure either way, and there's little difference between stacked PRs, commit chains in a single PR, or even feature branches, from that point of view. Even force-push branch updatea aren't difficult to review, because of the reflog and "git range-diff". The differences are mainly in what kinds of behaviour the web-based tooling promotes in the rest of the team, which does matter, and depends on the team.
I agree with you if you're using Graphite instead of GitHub. Having a place to give feedback and/or approval on the individual "units" (commits in a PR, or PRs in a stack) is useful, grouping dependent but distinct changes is useful, and diff'd commit evolution within each unit PR in response to back-end-forth review feedback is useful in some collaborative settings. Though, if you know "git range-diff" and reflog, that shows diff'd commit evolution quite well.
In GitHub, people are confused by stacked PRs both conceptually and due to the GitHub UX around them. Most times when I've posted a stacked PR to a GitHub project, other people didn't realise it was stacked, and occasinally someone else has merged the tip of a stack made by me, and been surprised to see all the dependent PRs merged automatically as a side effect. Usually before they get to reviewing those other PRs :-)
People understand commit sequences in a PR, though I've rarely seen people treat the individual commits as units for review when using GitHub, unfortunately. In the Linux kernel world where Git was born, the PR flow is completely different from GitHub: Their system tends to result in feedback on individual commits. It also encourages better quality feedback, with less nitpicking, and better quality commits.
Not often, but given that it costs me nothing to have it all in my tree, I'd rather have it than not.
And here's a slightly smaller one which isn't about "miscellaneous fixes": https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/20260408122027.80303-1-xuanzh...
Some of these commits even get reviewed by different maintainers before being merged, which is common when a patchset touches several subsystems at once.