The entire rest of the world combined has done it twice.
For a long time people would scoff when it was said they had a 10 year lead, and that others would catch up quickly. Proof meets pudding.
SpaceX has also had numerous failures with the larger generation of second stages and currently doesn't have a lead there. Nobody does.
Yes, Starship development has been slow and occasionally explodey, but they've successfully demonstrated all the fundamentals and it's "just" iteration from here. (They haven't gone into full orbit, but that's by choice, not lack of capability.)
If you never fail, you aren’t trying.
Isn't that better?