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Can we please focus on thoughtful conversation instead of importing the worst comments from other forums*?

Not to judge the feeling you express - we can all relate to that. But as an HN comment it's pretty well guaranteed to turn the thread away from good places.

(* I suppose I'm more sensitive about this since the episode I wrote about here: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=48427800 ("in one case I saw"))

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Agreed. You've probably noticed this too, but I think 90% of the very dumb, mean spirited, and inflammatory things I see are from someone purporting to dunk on it, or refute it, or tell us how it made them mad. Its probably the main mechanism by which is spreads. I think a lot of people do it organically, but I also think coordinated marketing campaigns will intentionally post things as if they're in opposition because its such an effective mechanism of spreading it. TLDR rage bait is bad don't fall for it!
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I think the full text of that is even worse:

> You had my sympathy until you mentioned your healing. Now I know you were fired for being a pussy.

I was expecting some more substantial motivation for that but it's not even motivated by some weird disagreement about acceptable behavior at work, it's just this weird insanely toxic belief that taking care of yourself is "pussy behavior".

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It's twitter right? Ever since a billionaire bought it it went downhill.
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This is host most of the internet is in general.
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HN is slowly starting to feel this way also, sadly
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HN still has the best mods (official and community)

Also, see the last rule in the Guidelines

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The one that says don’t compare HN to Reddit?

Said the HN community has become over time (sadly) more toxic like Twitter/X.

The moderation here is fine, though it can be questionable at times why there’s some post suppression on certain topics.

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