Zig is a language to use when you do need the control, mostly because of performance reasons. And once you are in, you start thinking how to manage your allocations and arenas are the logical outcome, once you notice that your application has scopes that can be destroyed at once.

If you need an argument why arenas are better than RAII, then you likely don't have the performance needs to even consider using Zig, because outside of performance, arenas are not better.

In Zig app code you don't have to pass allocators all over if you don't want to, that's your code so do what you want. But for libraries it's the right thing to do because it puts the caller in control.

The reason you have to pass allocators instead of making this implicit like in e.g. Odin, is because Zig just takes a firm stance against implicit logic, firmer than any other language I've ever used. The end result is that people who like Zig tend to like passing allocators around even in their own code.

I don't love malloc / free, managing frees one-to-one with allocations is a nightmare. An HTTP server is actually a great example of a good fit for arenas... you can have an arena created per connection, and then free the arena when the connection closes. Now all of your allocations during that connection are guaranteed to be freed instead of having to keep track of them individually. Need something to live across connections? Use the general purpose allocator for those particular things.

For one shot programs, why bother freeing anything at all? The gpa or malloc or whatever else is fine there.

Personally I mostly lean on fixed-size buffers, but if I'm writing Zig it's just little toy programs where blowing up when the buffer runs out of room is fine. But for big non-toy programs it might be good to use fixed-size buffers anyway and define your limits in terms of things actually relevant to your domain.

RAII and smart pointers are fine too, but C++ has you covered if you want those. Zig is specifically avoiding that kind of invisible code that destructors bring you.

however, in languages that don't allow it, you can pick and choose different allocators for different workflows. it may not be important to you, but it is important to many. and shoe horning support for multiple allocators is not easy for language

I distinctly remember one of my first "real" jobs, somebody had written a C# library for GraphQL. It had some sort of bug or lack of functionality I had to fix. The author had fallen hook, line, and sinker for sealed classes and all that nonsense, so the shortest path to using the rest of their code was to fork the library and re-write the thousand offending lines and all references thereto. Luckily it wasn't a deep dependency.

Contrast that with similar issues in typical Python. The library likely accepts my favourite duck-typed solution, if it doesn't then I can likely work around it with an appropriate choice of dunder methods in the code I have interacting with the library, and if it still doesn't yield then I can just rewrite (monkey-patch) the offending code at runtime.

Not that either of those scenarios are objectively optimal, but they illustrate one of the principles people have in mind when they use an interface like allocators (not the only one, I'm sure other commentors will talk your ear off), that when push comes to shove you'd prefer to be able to use your existing code to solve your new problems. And that does empirically mostly work here; you can use nearly the entire Zig stdlib (especially when ignoring things like the posix namespace) and most of the rest of the ecosystem as well on embedded devices, in WASM, in bounded-memory applications, in generic application code, in fast-running CLI apps not even bothering to free, etc.

I agree with much of your discussion about arenas by the way. They're a moderately poor fit for the current interface in Zig, largely because the free functionality is questionable at best. IME, most uses of arenas actually know they need such a thing. Functions taking allocator arguments and expecting the allocator to be an arena should take an arena argument. When using arenas for lifetime management, something should probably own that arena rather than implicitly assuming whatever gets passed through the stack is correct. Passing arenas to arbitrary functions expecting general-purpose allocators is prone to leaks, and you'd be better off using the arena (or a buffer created therefrom) as a backing allocator for a data structure capable of actually freeing if you can't trust the implementation you're calling into (and if you can trust it, they should expose a better API allowing you to detect that trustability at the callsite).

The trouble comes when you have data structures that manage memory, and you want to associate the allocation strategy with the particular instance of the data structure. Or, worse, you don't store the allocator pointer with the data and you require that all functions operating on the data structure happen to use compatible allocators.

At its simplest, though, passing allocators around is just removing an implicit global variable that is sometimes helpful to customize locally, but nearly impossible to customize locally if left as a global.

To me this kind of stuff always feels a bit cargo cult programming.

I don't think the footguns you're talking about are real by the way.

they make a lot less sense in languages where the compiler or runtime takes care of this for you.

This is for a long running process where consuming compute and memory should only occur on processing a request and must revert to a baseline memory consumption once the request is completed.

malloc with default allocator always gradually increases the memory consumption. This continues with enough request bursts on our testing until the process runs out of memory. mimalloc doesn't.

On mobile, we are stuck with the default allocator. On mobiles, the phenomenon of the default allocator consuming memory is reproducible even with normal Qt apps. It is what it is.