Someone hit on the notion that it’s Stockholm Syndrome. You bond with people you go through shit with. You don’t bond with people who prevent the shit. That was a super awkward conversation. The asshole in charge quit shortly after it, but 2 years later we still occasionally called each other out for making plans that accounted for a toxic chain of command that was no longer toxic.
Exactly why the general public thinks Y2K was a "hoax" or "overblown".
Unfortunately, that typically meant when you were paged, the problem was probably significant, hard, or it was another team and you were just being triaged in because you were affected or might be able to help root cause.